15 People Confess About What It Is Like To Have A Partner Who Sucks In Bed

Posted by Missy aka Tizzy in Confessions On 22nd January 2018
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Sex is a key component of any relationship. Most couples have sex several times before making their relationship official. After all, it is important to "try before you buy". You do not want to end up committing to someone who has some strange fetish or someone who is unable to satisfy your sexual needs. Even if every other part of your relationship seems perfect, if one of you is bad in bed, it can cause some major issues in your relationship. Let's face it, one of the biggest perks of being in a relationship is the ability to have sex on the regular, so it is important that you are both able to satisfy one another.

Sometimes you need to change for your partner.

Small changes can help make your relationship perfect when it comes to getting frisky. It sounds like this guy might want to hit the gym and build up his stamina.

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Once again, consideration is key.

If you leave your partner feeling sexually frustrated, there is a good chance that they will begin to stray. A strong relationship happens when each person is actively trying to satisfy the other person's needs.

Communication is essential in any relationship.

If you do not let your partner know your needs, then resentment will build up. Being inconsiderate in the bedroom is another factor that could cause your partner to stray as well.

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Some guys need to imagine their aunt with a mustache.

Guys need to do anything to try to last longer in bed. If you cannot last long, then you need to build up some stamina so that you can go several rounds instead of just one quick round.

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If you’re more experienced in bed, bear this in mind.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with teaching your partner what you like in bed. You can also add a little constructive criticism, just do not be mean. Tell him what you like. You might find that it turns him on.

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There’s no excuse for selfishness.

It takes two to tango, and that is why both of you should be getting off. If you are constantly being left without satisfaction, pleasure yourself in front of your partner. That will cause him to take the hint and step his game up.

Approaching the subject of partner’s sexual prowess can be tricky.

If you are determined to make your relationship work, it is essential. If she is not good, guide her. Show her how you like it without making her feel bad about her performance.

These people really need to talk to their partners.

If you do not talk, your relationship will not last. If you are intimidating in the bedroom, tone it back a bit or ask him what he likes and make it work for both of you.

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Talk about a double whammy.

A selfish lover is one thing, but a selfish lover who isn’t even competent must be a lot harder to deal with. You have to tell him how you feel. This is another moment when communication is key to your bedroom success.

It’s important to try new things as a couple.

Trying new things can be a ton of fun. Even if you are not totally into it, it is important to nurture the things that turns your partner on. If she wants to roleplay, do it. Then, take turns doing the things that turn you on the most. Compromise is key.

Selfish lovers are worse than bad ones.

So even if you’re not quite meeting your partner’s needs in bed, you’ll get brownie points for trying. Remember, it takes two to tango. Both people need to be happy to have a successful relationship inside and outside of the bedroom.

Now, this is a tricky situation.

She might be surprised to find out that he is fantastic in bed, once he is ready to take that step. You should never pressure someone you love into doing anything they are not ready for.

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Sex isn’t always about the act itself.

It is about getting intimate, and that can be done just by kissing, petting, or cuddling. It is a way to make two people feel closer to each other and not just on a carnal level.

When communication fails, it’s time to reevaluate your relationship.

If you have confessed your concerns to your partner, and they have done nothing to even try to change their ways, perhaps they are just not into you as much as you thought. It might be time to move on if your partner cannot make an effort to make you happy.

But there’s still hope for this couple.

Providing, of course, that they are willing to talk it through. It is all about taking baby steps. You might find him to be more willing if you take things slow.

Are you bad in bed?

It is important to know that every couple is different when it comes to sex. The most important thing is that both people are satisfied, otherwise, it might be time to call it quits. Check out this video to see if there is a chance that you are a bad lover.

What it all boils down to is that you have to be able to trust your partner to a certain extent if you are going to have sex with them. If your partner is not good in bed, then you need to find sensitive ways to let them know so you can move forward with your relationship. If they don't listen to your concerns and try to make changes, then it may be time to move on.

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